When it comes to talk about the things that go on behind closed doors, may people find themselves hesitant, or even wary. This is because intimate issues, especially those that are based on a need that is going unfulfilled, can cause self doubt in the person that is being told that they are not performing as well as they might have thought. This is why these five important tips on how to talk to your lover about intimate issues is so important.
Do not make an overt effort at this point in terms of getting your wife to see it your way with your relationship coach. You should stop communicating with her on this so that you can allow yourself some “thinking time.” This may seem counterintuitive, but by no longer pestering her on this issue you are signaling to her that you are mature enough to find the right solution.
The second layer is our sexuality, sensuality and emotional chakra. Unresolved issues about sex, our senses and honoring the physical body we are in, as well as our emotional self are stored here. I’m sure at some point you have come across a man or woman who hasn’t resolved that they are more than a sexual being and have their 2nd chakra turned up really high.
Commitment is too mature for some guys. It comes with a lot of responsibility for guys who just don’t want to grow up yet. Some guys are just immature and are happy that way. They couldn’t be forced out of their comfort zones.
This is probably not the stance you want to take, nor is it the situation that you want to find yourself in. And, the real risk that I find with focusing so much on this thoughts is that many times, this becomes your sole focus and then you dwell only upon the negative aspects of it and the fear that it brings you. Often, his thoughts about the divorce become your thoughts and this whole thing becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. What’s even worse than that though, is allowing for the fears and the hyper focus on the negative to keep you from taking the action that might help you to fix some of the issues and to avoid the divorce ever moving forward in the first place.
Two giant steps for the guys and girls of “The Big Bang Theory”, and with two couples pretty much taken care of, what will happen with Leonard and Penny or Howard and Bernadette in next week’s season 6 finale, which will air on May 16 on CBS? Will Leonard and Penny stay together or will Leonard’s new job offering end their relationship?
How he feels about himself physically can also impact whether or not he wants to make love. Just as we get focused on those few extra pounds we’ve gained, men do much the same thing. If you hear your husband making comments about how he wishes he was thinner or he stresses that he wants to get in better shape, get on board and help him with that. Work out together and cook healthy meals as a couple. It will help you both get toned and it will also allow you the chance to get reconnected in a very unique way.